The world of woman !!!

Lot has written about woman.... her happy side.. her sad life, there is nothing that left to write !

My question here is 'r u happy to be a woman?? I ask this question often to myself..n my answer varies each time as per d mood.. when i am low in my spirit i just don't like my life... i only look at d negative side of it...  but at d same time when i am happy i just love to be a woman..

What makes an woman happy ??  The number of forward messages indicates its difficult to please a woman... but to be frank every little thing that you do or the efforts that you put from d heart is enough to make her smile...

Her role is quite big.. being a daughter is d most precious days of a lady.. though she realizes it much later..  whatever the circumstance at home she is being well taken care of (90 percent of d households)..  she is her fathers favorite all the time..  she has her group of friends who support her days of thick and thin..

She has this imagination Marriage is the happiest moment of her life... but soon she realizes  there is lots of responsibilities attached to  her marital life!  She tries to please everyone around sacrificing  her likes n dislikes..

She ignore d discrimination... she learns to accept that though they come from office together... tired.. she is supposed to serve  water and tea for her husband and she does it obediently..

This is d story of a middle class woman.. though she  manages all her responsibilities well she never get d appreciation she is due for...

Though my life is easy  and  am lucky to have a husband who appreciate me ignoring my short comings.. i come across with woman who really take the pain to meet the ends.. she works like a servant to please her in-laws and husband but always end up hurting..  the more efficient she tries to be the more responsibilities she gets and d most hurting part is a mom inlaw who was also a daughter inlaw  once has to do lot with this desperation ! 

Her daughter gets a helping hand from her husband 'she got a very good husband' at the same time her son tries to support her daughter in law 'i never allowed him any such thing... look at her how she is treating my son" Can  d daughter inlaw be happy being a woman ??

most of the cases the daughter inlaw gets to return what she got on a later date and we see in families the daughter inlaw - mom inlaw fight and few of the times the elder lady is thrown out to old age home? who is responsible for all these??? a woman herself ! 

i know one lady who is harassed by her boss but  not able to stop his dirty comments and unwanted  talks... she is scared to complain fearing for her job .... if at all try try to make an objection or complaint expecting her female friends to help her out,  most of d time ladies (including her trust worthy friends) turns and bitch about her and she ends up hurting herself.. do you expect her to be happy  here ?

 
I know many woman who was misused by  trust worthy boyfriends .. and still get scared to hitch in life... dead scared to fall in love again...

The woman gives her soul to put her family together.... children and her husband means her world.. in the process she never have time for herself... she doesn't have time / or don't care to worry about her looks...  she turns fat and ugly... and today, we really see d family tearing apart with an extra marital affair of her husband... Are these woman supposed to believe in love  again ?? are they supposed to love their life ??

We celebrate woman's day once in a year... talk about all equality but even at home a  woman is not given d 

required respect... most of d places though they prove that they are noting less than the men around the preference is always being given to the men..

Without a woman a family is incomplete... her role is too big.. daughter.. sister.. wife.. daughter inlaw..  mother.. mother inlaw.. grand mother.. all depends on 'her'..

The only thing she ask is bit of respect in d family.. in d office.. a bit of appreciation about what she does... she has her limitations.. accept it or ignore it...

Love and  help the woman around yourself rather than bitching their short comings... we  woman can make a difference to woman around... lets work on that ! Let us support each other !